You haven't actually added anything new Zoran. And you haven't really explained away the documented failures in my links as well as the plausible explanations. The whole point is that S/S is more likely to be weakened by corrosion and without warning. And good luck seeing what is going on on the shaft and pins of your swivel seeing that they are hidden from view. Also they are also likely to absorb and retain water so in fact they can be exposed to water for a long time. Plus your anchor gear might be sitting in a wet anchor well for lengthy periods. And you are not really 'oversizing' when your snaps are only given a working load of 300 or so kg's whereas a gal D shackle rates in the tonnes (1-2 typically).
Engine and bollard bolts are not comparable. For a start the transom or bow takes much of the strain, you have 4 of them, they are a different component with different rating, they are not immersed as long, etc.
PS: S/S shackles are not recommended for recovery situations(4wd).