A Good Philosophy On Life

[arpie]

Hi guys

Just read this one again & thought I'd share it with you. Made sense then & makes sense now! Just wish I had read it when I was in my 20's!

TWO GLASSES OF WINE

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the 2 glasses of wine theory…………….

A professor stood before his philosophy class with some items on his desk in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'YES.'

The professor then produced two glasses of wine from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the important things; your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favourite passions; things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else; the small stuff.

If you put the sand into the jar first, he continued, there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the good things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18 holes. Do one more run down the ski slope. There will always be time to clean the house. Take care of the golf balls first; the things that really matter.

Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the wine represented.

The professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of glasses of wine with a friend.'

[mrsswordfisherman]

Great read Roberta and a very cool analogy

Thanks for sharing that

Cheers mrsswordfisherman

[mrmoshe]

Brilliant!!!!

Great analologies there Roberta.

It's funny..the older you get...the more that all makes sense.

Cheers,

Pete.

[Flightmanager]

Golf balls , sand , pebbles ? Too deep for me !! The wine thing sounds OK but !

Ross

[roosterman]

thats a great post roberta.....

that analogy is real good but a bugger to follow in real life...

oh how simple life would be without all the sand we have to worry about...

[arpie]

....Golf balls , sand , pebbles ? Too deep for me !...... Patience, Grasshopper .... all will be revealed with time & life's little experiences! Having said that, I like the wine bit too! Every recipe of mine starts with:

Pour a glass of wine into the chef!!

Yeah Steve - the sand I prefer is between my toes! However, all the bits that happen to you are character building, eh? Some have more character than others!

Roberta

[Flightmanager]

Patience? As Spike Milligan said " Patience is a word invented by dull buggers who couldnt think quickly enough!" .

And as I say " Lord , give me patience , right bloody now !" .

Ross