Hi Ross,
In times like this I normally suck up to the missus, repot her plants, replant them somewhere, whatever she wants, all I say yes dear, do some household chores for her... I even go shopping with her, and that I can tell you is a big, big sacrifice but the reward is great..more time fishing when the weather comes good ...works all the time..for me anyway. I don't know if it applies to you.
Cheers,
Scout